PARS FOR THE CHAOS

This is what happens after the bad shot.

This emotional reset isn’t about playing better. It’s about:

The thoughts you have after a bad shot
The pressure you put on yourself
And the quiet reset before you try again

Because the hardest part of golf…
Isn’t the swing. It’s the story in your head.

This is for you if…

You've ever walked off a hole replaying everything you did wrong
You expect more from yourself than you’d expect from anyone else
You love golf… but it doesn’t always love you back
You keep showing up anyway

Because you don’t lose rounds from your swing. You lose them from what happens after the bad shot.

For the golfer who already has the gear—but not the mindset.

What you don’t have is a way to reset when your mind spirals mid-round.

This gives you that.

And once you feel it, you’ll reach for it again.
Works for non-golfers too. Because the spiral isn’t just golf.

From Our Readers

"Witty, humorous, and it reaches you in your own personal journey..."

Frank

"I've read it multiple times and enjoy it every time..."

Todd Oger

Woman in a red shirt and sunglasses holding a golf club on a golf course with ocean view

About the Author

Hi, I'm Krissy.

I didn’t grow up confident. Hearing loss made the world feel quieter—but also made me question my place in it.

Golf became the one space where I could think clearly again.

Where I learned how to reset, let go, and try again—over and over.

This emotional reset came from that. Not from playing perfectly. But from learning how to stay.

What you’ll actually use mid-round

Something to reach for after the bad shot

A way to reset when your mind won’t let it go
36 honest affirmations that meet you where you are
The kind of clarity that shows up when you need it most
Not just something you read—something you come back to

Not sure if this is for you?

This isn’t about playing better. It's about feeling better while you play.

FAQ

Is this a physical book?

Yes — this is the physical edition of Pars for the Chaos.
This is a pre-order, and your copy will ship once the first print run is ready.

When will my book ship?

We’re currently in pre-order. Orders will ship before Father’s Day.
You’ll receive a confirmation email with tracking once it’s on the way.

Do I need to know golf to enjoy it?

Not at all. Golf is just the setting — the mindset, emotions, and lessons are universal.

What's inside the book?

36 short, honest affirmations paired with reflections — designed to help you reset your mindset mid-round (and beyond).

What's your return policy?

Because this is a limited pre-order print run, all sales are final. If your book arrives damaged, we’ll make it right.

Pure Art!

I’m 1/3 through the book so far. My thoughts:

Before Part I: so touchingly and eloquently written! And elegant font too!

Part I: to be honest, poems (sorry if I’m using wrong/bad terminology) have never been my cup of tea. But wow what a nice visual experience! I truly enjoyed it like I was reading one of my art/manga/anime books that I collected as a teenager! This analogy is more apt than it appears - those books are in Japanese (where there’s text) which I didn’t understand, but that doesn’t matter. I enjoy them, and the book, as pure art!

Life long golfer since I was 8 ⛳️

This little book won’t increase my yardage nor make me a better putter, it gives me something else I need and enjoy rereading it. It is witty and humorous, tells a story which reaches me in my own personal journey in life. Like recommending golf for friends as a positive gift in life I can also recommend Pars for the Chaos.
Franco

Golf is life and this book gets it….

Bobby Jones said, “Golf is the closest game to the game we call life, you get bad breaks from good shots, and good breaks from bad shots.” Pars for the Chaos captures that same truth with joy and wit, showing how to roll with whatever the game (or life) hands you. It’s a funny, refreshing reminder that mindset is everything and a little humor helps you come out on top.

So relatable!

Firstly, the layout was so easy to read. The illustrations and text were catchy and fun!
Secondly, the quick snippets of relatable golf emotions is so fun AND TRUE! lol
I really really enjoyed the little insights and background of who Krissy (the author) is as a person and how golf is her therapy in life!
I’ve read thru the book multiple times and enjoy it every time! Truly a great read!